The scripture readings for today can be found at Friday of the Third Week of Advent | USCCB
In our gospel for today we hear of Joseph, the spouse of Mary, and his first reaction to hearing the news that she was pregnant. The first thought that came to his mind when he found out that Mary was pregnant was that she was unfaithful. Under Jewish law he could have had her put to death by stoning, but instead, since he loved Mary, he was unwilling to expose her to shame and decided to divorce her quietly. I’m sure he must have felt hurt and betrayed that the woman he loved became pregnant by someone else other than him. But he wasn’t going to allow these hurt feelings effect his love for Mary.
Joseph, being a righteous and devout man, was open to the promptings and Will of God. Joseph was privileged to have been approached by an angel through a dream, and it was there that he found out the true nature of the child that Mary was carrying. Being obedient to God he took Mary into his home and accepted the responsibility of caring for the Child Jesus. By doing so, he was saying “Yes” to God in much the same way Mary said “Yes” to God through the angel Gabriel when she found out that she was to be the mother of the Savior. Joseph was to be part of salvation history by being the foster father of the Lord Jesus. He knew there will be problems and issues in doing so, but he acted out of love and obedience towards God to do what was needed to be done.
Throughout scripture there are no words spoken by Joseph. In today’s gospel, we hear of his concern about Mary being pregnant, followed by his desire to divorce her quietly. Then we hear of him seeing an angel in his dreams telling him of the Child Jesus. No words were attributed to Joseph, but he responds in a way that shows great faith in God. He is a man of action and is willing to do what God needs him to do to protect Mary and the Child Jesus.
Joseph is so important that Pope Francis named 2021 as the Year of St. Joseph. Pope Francis describes Saint Joseph as a beloved father, a tender and loving father, an obedient father, an accepting father; a father who is creatively courageous, a working father, a father in the shadows.
As we enter into the final week of Advent, and prepare for the birth of Jesus, let us try to live in imitation of Joseph whose entire life was in devotion to Jesus and to His Mother Mary.
Lord Jesus, help us to share with those in our lives that you are Emmanuel, God with us.